Jokes are jokes inside and out. Whether they are inside jokes or corny everyone laughs at them jokes, it doesn't matter. When you do post a joke on facebook or some public social networking site then you might get judged or cussed out. Today my boyfriend and I would spam each other how the other one is mean. He chatted me on facebook saying your mean and kept saying it so i posted on his wall "Mean." and we had a conversation, about how each other was more mean.
His friends joked around how it was disgusting that we were flirting on facebook, mine on the other hand decided to cuss me out and kept telling me that I really am mean to him and i need an attitude check. IT WAs A JOKE GET OVER IT. Now i feel bad and my boyfriend is at the movies so i can't text him to apologize or talk to him about it.
I feel bad for my attitude towards anyone that has caught me at a bad time, i also apologize to my friends if they read this but this is my way of venting so i don't annoy them. I am sorry, but it was and still is a joke, if it makes you feel any better we were also having an i love you more war at the same time.
So i am sorry for having a joke with my boyfriend. I am sorry if i seem mean. i am sorry that some people don't understand me. Well that is my ranting for the night, unless someone makes me mad, kbye.
Friday, March 9, 2012
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Exes+Rumors=Big Trouble For You
Unless you have never dated someone before or you are dating someone who has never dated someone before then you know what I'm talking about. Either you or boyfriend/girlfriend will always have the crazy ex. The worst thing to have is two crazy exes at once. Right now it feels like i have two, but no i just have his ex started rumors, taking my friends, and pissing both me and my boyfriend off to the point we take it out on each other.
People say that words are words, they can't hurt you, well who ever said it did not know a damn thing. When people tell you rumors about your boyfriend it will get to you. I have lost a lot of friends because his ex has been telling people FALSE rumors and now I'm being told that I am the bad person and i need to dump him or I will end up hurt. All relationships end up with someone hurt, and i am in love and i do not care what anyone says I am not too young to love him *cough Lexi cough*
Try not to let people get to you, when you have close friends or a boyfriend talk to them. They can actually help. Well this is all i can say on this subject right now.
People say that words are words, they can't hurt you, well who ever said it did not know a damn thing. When people tell you rumors about your boyfriend it will get to you. I have lost a lot of friends because his ex has been telling people FALSE rumors and now I'm being told that I am the bad person and i need to dump him or I will end up hurt. All relationships end up with someone hurt, and i am in love and i do not care what anyone says I am not too young to love him *cough Lexi cough*
Try not to let people get to you, when you have close friends or a boyfriend talk to them. They can actually help. Well this is all i can say on this subject right now.
Monday, March 5, 2012
Mind Games
Some people think that mind games can be pulled on people if they know what they are doing. Guys play complicated mind games. Always remember GUYS ARE MORONS! They will say one thing and mean another. They always think that you are thinking about them and we are incapable of having other thoughts. I am a very complex person, people don't always understand me. Let alone some stupid neanderthal boy mind.
Today I was texting my boyfriend and i said i was thinking and he automatically asks, "What are you thinking about? Is it me?" He was wrong. I was actually thinking about when the adorable wedges i ordered. He made me mad. Then he had to go and now I feel bad, but oh well it'll be better tomorrow.
If you don't want to tell a guy what you are thinking then put your foot down and stand your ground. Your mind is your mind no matter what anyone says. It's okay to open up as long as you want to, if you are bugged to the point you want to give in, stop answering say you have to go, just stand your ground it'll be better in the long run.
People may get mad that you don't give in easily, but if you don't want to tell don't. If they don't understnd then they aren't a true friend, I hate to break it to you but it is true.
Today I was texting my boyfriend and i said i was thinking and he automatically asks, "What are you thinking about? Is it me?" He was wrong. I was actually thinking about when the adorable wedges i ordered. He made me mad. Then he had to go and now I feel bad, but oh well it'll be better tomorrow.
If you don't want to tell a guy what you are thinking then put your foot down and stand your ground. Your mind is your mind no matter what anyone says. It's okay to open up as long as you want to, if you are bugged to the point you want to give in, stop answering say you have to go, just stand your ground it'll be better in the long run.
People may get mad that you don't give in easily, but if you don't want to tell don't. If they don't understnd then they aren't a true friend, I hate to break it to you but it is true.
Double Standards
Guys and girls have double standards it's the elephant in the room no one really talks about. Well I have a mind of my own and guts. Lets get going!
1) Friends. They are allowed to hate our friends and get mad at us when we act different with them. God forbid we don't like theirs or get mad when they act like ignorant obnoxious bastards when they are with theirs.
2) Expectations. We can be told to do something and it be expected to be done withing the second we ask. If we politely ask them for a favor and they blow up about how we never do anything. and cannot expect them to.
3) Sex. If a girl even considers having sex or going past second or even first base they are called a whore, slut, skank, etc. If i guy has sex he is considered a god or the sexiest beast. I was with my boyfriend and his friends, i was quiet and they forgot about me and they start talking about how their friend that doesn't look like he would get any "ass" as they put it gets the most. One of them went on bout how their girlfriend is a stickler and he doesn't get any "ass". My boyfriend then says well I am in a newly committed relationship so i can't expect it and then looks me in the eyes and asks me if that is right. I was speechless, said bye and walked all the way home by myself while i heard them giggling and yelling at each other.
Those are the 3 that I will get into right now. Double standards are horrible and people need to address the elephant in the room, but they don't all because they do not have guts. Well people i may be small and pink but I have a voice and i will open my mouth.
1) Friends. They are allowed to hate our friends and get mad at us when we act different with them. God forbid we don't like theirs or get mad when they act like ignorant obnoxious bastards when they are with theirs.
2) Expectations. We can be told to do something and it be expected to be done withing the second we ask. If we politely ask them for a favor and they blow up about how we never do anything. and cannot expect them to.
3) Sex. If a girl even considers having sex or going past second or even first base they are called a whore, slut, skank, etc. If i guy has sex he is considered a god or the sexiest beast. I was with my boyfriend and his friends, i was quiet and they forgot about me and they start talking about how their friend that doesn't look like he would get any "ass" as they put it gets the most. One of them went on bout how their girlfriend is a stickler and he doesn't get any "ass". My boyfriend then says well I am in a newly committed relationship so i can't expect it and then looks me in the eyes and asks me if that is right. I was speechless, said bye and walked all the way home by myself while i heard them giggling and yelling at each other.
Those are the 3 that I will get into right now. Double standards are horrible and people need to address the elephant in the room, but they don't all because they do not have guts. Well people i may be small and pink but I have a voice and i will open my mouth.
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Girls and Their "Types"
Every girl has a a type of guy that they dream their prince charming to be. What types are reality or fantasy? Well every girl deserves her prince charming, but is she asking to much for him to live up too? Tall dark and handsome, hmm a little specific please? There are a lot of creeps out there that fit that description. So lets see I'll use my friends "type" she wants 6' or taller, blue eyes, dark hair. funny, smart, and cute. That's a good draft to work off of, not too many details, but enough to say "NO" to a short brown eyed geekazoid.
Don't get me wrong a geekazoid can be a good bf, but if you are more worried about your type to stick too and the perfect image of the perfect couple then turn down the geek and go for the jock. If the jock isn't your type and neither is the geekazoid then go in between like a smart tall swimmer. It's the perfect in between he will be strong enough to give you piggy back rides and carry you when you are tired.
Always remember guys are morons (see my previous post). You can trust the good ones the only problem is finding them and breaking their mask. Is your dream guy fact or fiction? Do you have crazy detail requests like perfect nose and structured cheek bones? If so then you are looking for a build a boy or model. If you are looking for tall, cute, blue eyes, dark hair, then you have a shot at finding him.
Don't be one of the crazy over detail oriented have to find the perfect guy I have bad news for you he does not exist no matter how hard u try you will not find him. Find a nice caring guy that you love and you are set. Types are not everything get to know before you judge. "The One" may not be who you expect, keep an open mind, eyes, and heart and you will end up happy.
Right now I'm happy with boyfriend and I said yes to dating him without seeing him, it was a blind date set up type thing. Now we are happy and a cute couple might i add.(: So get to know a person before you judge them from their cover.
Don't get me wrong a geekazoid can be a good bf, but if you are more worried about your type to stick too and the perfect image of the perfect couple then turn down the geek and go for the jock. If the jock isn't your type and neither is the geekazoid then go in between like a smart tall swimmer. It's the perfect in between he will be strong enough to give you piggy back rides and carry you when you are tired.
Always remember guys are morons (see my previous post). You can trust the good ones the only problem is finding them and breaking their mask. Is your dream guy fact or fiction? Do you have crazy detail requests like perfect nose and structured cheek bones? If so then you are looking for a build a boy or model. If you are looking for tall, cute, blue eyes, dark hair, then you have a shot at finding him.
Don't be one of the crazy over detail oriented have to find the perfect guy I have bad news for you he does not exist no matter how hard u try you will not find him. Find a nice caring guy that you love and you are set. Types are not everything get to know before you judge. "The One" may not be who you expect, keep an open mind, eyes, and heart and you will end up happy.
Morons
Guys are morons, its a simple well known fact. Girls say it all the time. There is just one problem. Guys are morons and it will never change. No matter how hard you train your guy to fit you he will always be a moron. Sure they can be sweet, kind, funny, but always remember they are morons who want one thing. SEX. It may not seem that way, but it is always on the morons brains. If you set a limit stick to our guns they are all you have.
Guys may look all cute and harmless at first, but once they get into your head and heart you are screwed. You ay be fine with it now, but unless you think you are going to marry him i would hold off on letting him in. If you let him in and things don't end well you will be hurt, there is no doubt about it.
Guys are morons, they will let girls take over them and train them, but what some people don't realize is while the girls are training them they are taking in things that they aren't supposed to notice since they are morons, as much as i hate to admit it morons do have a small brain that they know how to use if needed, it is a rare thing but possible.
Just a little insight if you need it, comment if you want to add anything. I would love to know what you think. (:
Guys may look all cute and harmless at first, but once they get into your head and heart you are screwed. You ay be fine with it now, but unless you think you are going to marry him i would hold off on letting him in. If you let him in and things don't end well you will be hurt, there is no doubt about it.
Guys are morons, they will let girls take over them and train them, but what some people don't realize is while the girls are training them they are taking in things that they aren't supposed to notice since they are morons, as much as i hate to admit it morons do have a small brain that they know how to use if needed, it is a rare thing but possible.
Just a little insight if you need it, comment if you want to add anything. I would love to know what you think. (:
Craziness
Hello Cyber World,
As you know from my previous post I will be using this to either complain about my boyfriend, brag about when he is actually nice, or talk about shoes. At the moment I am going to say that my life is crazy, i love the fact that its crazy but sometimes i just need some stability. i have found that my friends and boyfriend give me the stability i need, but the again they can cause some of my problems.
Like now for instance i was joking around with my friend and i get told to calm down, i was perfectly calm, but they made me uncalm, telling someone to calm down is never the answer. Now we are both pissed and uncalm.
I have checked off one reason for blogging, lets check off another. Shoe talk time!!(: Haha, i love shoes, i just ordered a pair of 3.75 inch with 1 inch cork platform wedges. They are adorable summer to die for shoes. They are strappy wedges that a girl like me needs, im 5'2" dating a 6'2" guy, i need all the extra height i can get.
Today my boyfriend is being kind of sweet. I never call him nice, because then i cant call him mean. Sweet and kind imply that there is some niceness but it never fully comes out as nice. Some people may call me cray for how i handle my relationships, but i need to train my guy to fit me, its like breaking in those new shoes if it takes too long you give up and never wear them or give them away. If it works you have the perfect shoe fit to you and you only.I may be crazy but who knows.
The moral to this is I am crazy and there is nothing you can do but try to understand. I wish you luck <3
As you know from my previous post I will be using this to either complain about my boyfriend, brag about when he is actually nice, or talk about shoes. At the moment I am going to say that my life is crazy, i love the fact that its crazy but sometimes i just need some stability. i have found that my friends and boyfriend give me the stability i need, but the again they can cause some of my problems.
Like now for instance i was joking around with my friend and i get told to calm down, i was perfectly calm, but they made me uncalm, telling someone to calm down is never the answer. Now we are both pissed and uncalm.
I have checked off one reason for blogging, lets check off another. Shoe talk time!!(: Haha, i love shoes, i just ordered a pair of 3.75 inch with 1 inch cork platform wedges. They are adorable summer to die for shoes. They are strappy wedges that a girl like me needs, im 5'2" dating a 6'2" guy, i need all the extra height i can get.
Today my boyfriend is being kind of sweet. I never call him nice, because then i cant call him mean. Sweet and kind imply that there is some niceness but it never fully comes out as nice. Some people may call me cray for how i handle my relationships, but i need to train my guy to fit me, its like breaking in those new shoes if it takes too long you give up and never wear them or give them away. If it works you have the perfect shoe fit to you and you only.I may be crazy but who knows.
The moral to this is I am crazy and there is nothing you can do but try to understand. I wish you luck <3
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